"No, I know what you mean. People fulfil many emotional roles in our life. No one is static in a relationship. So in time they are friends, in other moments lovers. Sometimes they even preform the role of family and many other roles. It's what makes that person special as they can be what they need to be to support you, It's what we should all try to be. A comrade in politics a lover in the bed a friend in the pub and a family in times of need."